Are you headed for divorce?

This self-assessment quiz has been specially designed to assess your perceptions of your relationship and to examine your interaction with some key factors and criteria which have long been understood as leading to relationship break-down and divorce. It is especially helpful for those people who have significant doubts about their relationship, or who are concerned about certain aspects of their relationship, and need some guidance. The quiz will take about 10 minutes to complete, after which you will be provided with some feedback. None of the answers or results are kept by us, although there is an option for you to discuss the results with us, including engaging us for relationship coaching, if you choose. There is no obligation.

What is the difference in years between your and your partner’s age?

How many relationships have you had previously over 12 months in duration?

How many relationships has your partner had previously over 12 months in duration?

Have either you or your partner been previously divorced?

Roughly what is the percentage split of household duties (including outdoor activities) you and your partner undertake?

Roughly what is the percentage split of child care duties you and your partner undertake?

What is your household income (all income earners together)?

Who do I derive my main emotional support from?

Who does my partner derive their main emotional support from?

What is your alcohol consumption

What is your partner's alcohol consumption

How often would you spend time with your partner in activities you do together, such as hobbies, sports, exercising, and other pursuits (not including watching forms of home-based entertainment)?

Out of 10, how would you rate your enjoyment, satisfaction and regularity of your sex life with your partner?

Have you ever had an affair?

Has your partner ever had an affair?

Have you ever committed acts of physical domestic violence towards your partner?

Has your partner ever committed acts of physical domestic violence towards you?

Have you committed acts of physical domestic violence against any other partner?

Has your partner ever committed acts of physical domestic violence against any other partner?

Have you ever called your partner an abusive term to their face?

Has your partner ever called you an abusive term to your face?

Who manages the family finances?

How often would you and your partner have a meaningful and constructive conversation about something important to either of you, or both (such as the children, finances, plans, your relationship, emotions, work issues family etc)?

How often would you and your partner sms or talk to each other when apart?

Have you or your partner ever threatened each other with a divorce or separation?

Which statement applies best to you?

Which statement applies best to your partner?

Have you ever been diagnosed with a psychological or psychiatric illness (other than Depression, Anxiety, Nervousness, Panic Attacks, diagnoses during your childhood, teens or early 20s)?

Has your partner ever been diagnosed with a psychological or psychiatric illness (other than Depression, Anxiety, Nervousness, Panic Attacks, diagnoses during their childhood, teens or early 20s)?

Tick the box for any of the following statements that apply to you.

How often would you and your partner make each other laugh?