Was she Valid (score 40 & up valid, any category under 7 red flag, shows the relationships strengths and struggles and why it probably won’t or will work)

How much you care for them

 

example:

lets say you are no longer have a relationship with the person and they were to call you in the middle of the night at 3am like one year of no talking and said "I need to talk to you I need help" (10 minutes from ur house)

 

What are the chances you would get up and drive to the person because you care for them from 1-10

 

1:

being no way on earth

5:

50% I might get up and go

10:

being I'd do everything in my possibility to help them

you can't do it to be nice 

you will not respark a relationship 

it would not be flirty in anyway 

there will be no repercussions

no one would know

 

strickly just to come and help them talk out a situation and nothing more 

 

Spiritual

 

How close of a relationship with God did she have

Was she bringing u closer to Christ as well

 

1

not saved and a terrible person 

5

Saved and a proclaimed Christian but doesn't do anything a Christian would do at all

10

Godliest person you've ever met in your life

Vibe with the person

 

Example from a scale 1-10 

Like how well do you guys get along like music hobbies conversation etc.

 

how long could u be in the same room together talking and having a good time

 

Cannot include romantic or physical touch strictly the vibe

How much did they care for you

 

1

being no at all treated you terribly 

5

being the didn't really care for you but didn't do anything bad

10

No one has ever treated you better before and you can't imagine anything better then that

 

use question 1 to help

score lower then question 1 if u feel like u cared more for them then they for you and Vice versa