The Conscious Relationship Quiz

When you have something on your mind that bothers you:

Want to journal or need some time alone to think about it

You distract yourself until it goes away

Call someone to discuss it with

Ponder on it a little then eventually distract yourself

When you have a challenge to face you:

Brainstorm through the problem with someone

Think about it how to fix it but never discuss it with anyone

Figure out a solution (or at least to know a solution is possible)

Figure out what the other person in the relationship wants and go do that

You are arguing with your spouse and your spouse starts talking about how they feel. Your response is

You don’t want to discuss it now but you do bring it up later when you have calmed down

You don’t want to talk about it NOW, you’re too worked up

You want to discuss every detail, and also talk about how they made you feel as well

You’re more of a listening and understanding type, no response is necessary

How do you usually react when someone confronts you about a problem?

I take some time to reflect and process before addressing the issue

I try to avoid the conversation altogether

We both talk about it in detail, but it’s me who leads the conversation

I stay quiet and listen without saying much

When you're feeling upset, how do you prefer others to respond?

I prefer others to give me the space to come to them for help, and I do when I need it

I prefer others to not bring it up at all, although I would never show emotion in front of others anyway

I prefer to talk about it with other, it always makes me feel better

I prefer others to give me the space to come to them for help, but I usually work it out myself or it goes away

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