How do I attach?

I often worry my partner will stop loving me.

I'm an affectionate person in relationships

I'm afraid when people really get to know me they won't love/ like me.

My independance in relationships is really important to me.

I prefer to keep my deep feelings to myself.

When I express how I feel to my partner I fear they won't feel the same about me.

I generally feel satisfied about my romantic relationships.

I am usually not the source of drama in my relationships.

I think about my relationship a lot.

I find it difficult to depend on my romantic partners.

I tend to get attached really quickly to romantic partners.

I don't find it difficult to express my needs to my partner.

I can sometimes get irritated and annoyed with my partner easily without knowing why.

I am very in tune to my partner's moods.

I believe that most people are trustworthy.

I prefer casual sex without commitment versus manogamous sex with one person.

I'm comfortable sharing my thoughts and feelings with my partner.

I worry if things don't work out with my present partner I won't ever find another relationship.

I get uncomfortable when my partner gets emotionally close to me.

During conflict I speak reactivly and often say things I later regret.

An argument doesn't usually make me question my relationship.

My partners often want me to be more vulnerable then I'm comfortable being.

I worry that I'm not desirable enough.

Sometimes people see me as boring as I'm not very dramatic/ intense in relationships.

I miss my partner when we're not together but feel disconnected when we are.

I feel comfortable disagreeing with others.

I don't like it when people depend on me.

When I notice someone I'm out with checking out other people I feel relieved that they aren't wanting something serious.

If I notice someone I'm with checking out other people I feel depressed.

If I'm dating someone who begins to act distant I may wonder what's going on but not think it likely has to do with me.

If someone I'm dating starts to distant I likely won't feel much about it and may feel relief.

If someone I'm dating starts to act distant I'll worry I've done something wrong or they are upset with me.

If my partner was to break up with me I'd try to make them jealous and show them what they are missing.

If I was dating someone for several months and they decided to break up with me I would be upset at first but then get over it.

Sometimes when I pursue someone I desire I'm not sure I want them anymore.

I don't have problems staying platonically in touch with exes.

When I'm single I feel anxious and if somethings wrong with me.

I find it hard to comfort my partner when they are feeling sad or upset.

I can bounce back quickly after a break-up and cut people off easily.

When I'm not with my partner and they are out with friends I worry they will find someone else.

I feel comfortable depending on my partner.