How Healthy Is My Relationship?

Do you date the same kind of person over and over again without success?

Do you ever verbally attack your partner's personality or character?

Do you feel understood and respected in your relationship?

When you are feeling upset or hurt, do you blame your partner for making you feel bad?

After an argument with your partner, do you stop talking to them for more than 24 hours?

Do you feel there are a lot of similarities between your relationship and your parents' relationship?

In conversation with your partner do you resort to sarcasm, name calling or eye rolling?

Do you have a voice in your relationship and do you use it?

Do you take on more responsibility for making your relationship work than your partner does?

Do you feel better about yourself and validated when you are in a relationship?

Do you need to feel in control in a relationship?

Does your lifestyle allow time and space for intimate exchanges with your partner?