QUIZ: What archeTYPE is your relationship?

First question, how would you encompass the identity of your entire relationship in ONE word? Choose from the list below, the word that BEST describes your relationship NOW.

Let's talk stuff. How much do the two of you care about having nice things?

We like things that reflect our unique tastes

We just buy what we like when we see it

We ONLY buy the best, highest quality

We take a long time to decide what to buy, we are VERY picky

We love IKEA, functionality is beauty

We buy whatever our friends seem to like

Most of our stuff has sentimental value

We prefer comfort over everything else

Experts say communication is key to human connection. Which choice best describes the way you talk, understand and listen to each other MOST of the time?

We speak and listen freely to eachother, straight from the heart!

Well one of us has to 'win' every conversation, second place is last place!

We approach communication as a sensible way to solve problems!

We are really good at communicating criticisms of each other!

Debating is one of our favourite pass-times!

As long as neither one of us gets too emotional, we communicate perfectly!

We notice and validate eachother's non-verbal communications really well!

Pretty much every conversation leads to a melt down!

Home is where the heart is! What's it like living under the same roof? If you don't live together, what is it like spending time together at home?

We both putter and do our own thing around the house

Home seems to be the place we go to argue

We are really grateful to live in such a beautiful home together

As long as the house is clean and tidy, we like being home

Spending quality time together in a shared space is a dream come true

Living together is just what couples are expected to do

We'd rather be home together than ANYWHERE else

Home is the place we use to escape

We all have inner children who refuse to grow up. How do your inner-children interact within your relationship? Choose the option that MOST accurately describes the two of you, NOW.

Our inner children are enthusiastic about life! We love to have fun!

Our inner children seem mostly angry at each other

Our inner children love helping and serving, we get joy from helping out in the community

Our inner children are terrified that we aren't measuring up or good enough

Our inner children are curious and thirsty to learn

Our inner children get in "tit for tat" fights quite often

Our inner children trust in positive outcomes

Our inner children have addictive tendencies (video games, working, shopping, drugs, alcohol, etc)

Every couple belongs to a family and community. We all need to feel like we are contributing to both in order to feel like we have purpose and meaning. How does your partnership serve your community? More specifically, how do you get the work done together? If you had to plan a family/community event together, how would/does it go?

We have excellent willpower to get any job done we set our minds to

What community?

We are very good at noticing and handling all the small details

Regardless of the situation, we will take charge of it!

We bring really good ideas to the table for planning and contributing to events

There is no way we could make even one decision together

We would gather the troops and delegate!

We already resent being asked to even think about this

Partnership can be a loaded word. Things don't always seem to be equal. How do you deal with conflicts within your partnership?

We both have the self-awareness to express ourselves without censorship

We practically never let go of our own positions to see the other's

Even if we argue, honouring each other's needs is top priority

We don't fight that often because we don't really share our feelings

We both want to objectively see each other's subjective point of view

We avoid conflict like it's the plague

We notice and validate each other's feelings, even if we disagree

We both end up over-reacting and saying things we don't mean

An effective relationship, like an effective business, needs a quality vision and mission statement. Choose the vision/ mission statement you like the best for your relationship.

If you were to overhear a close friend speaking about your reputation as a couple, what would your overly honest buddy disclose?

They are such different people but they seem to balance each other out

They bicker constantly, it gets awkward being around them

They work well together, they seem super committed to each other anyway

They seem to care what people think about them quite a bit

They are always up for an interesting discussion, they are easy to talk to

They seem detached and disconnected from each other lately

They just love love, it's gross

They always seem to have bad things happening to them

The basis of any solid relationship is friendship. How would you describe your friendship, within your romantic relationship?

We enjoy adventure and freedom together

We are so different, it's hard to find common points

We are so good at making and smashing goals together

We get lost in the day to day and forget to make time for each other

We are constantly learning new things about each other

We mainly just gossip about other people when we talk

We are doing our inner healing and work so that we can have the best relationship possible

We would be better friends if one of us would change. A lot.

You can be an atheist and still acknowledge that nature governs things outside the control of humans. How does faith/spirituality influence your relationship? (in self, nature, universe, higher power, earth fairy, etc)

We believe that trusting ourselves and eachother champions success and happiness

We are too worried about paying the bills and surviving to think about anything else

We have a lot of gratitude for all the abundance we enjoy together

We just do what is socially acceptable and try not to embarrass ourselves too much

We believe in humanity and recognize how special our time here is

We don't think or talk about spiritual beliefs

We acknowledge a deep interconnectedness in the universe

We are just trying to get through the pain of the day so we can watch Netflix

Every relationship reaches a crisis point at some point in the road. What has been the biggest obstacle you've overcome/ have yet to overcome together? Name the obstacle that is occurring CLOSEST to present day and/or the one that is still affecting you NOW.

QUIZ: What archeTYPE is your relationship?

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