Language and Passing in the Transgender and Non-Binary Community

1. How do you identify?

Trans male

Trans female

Nonbinary

Other

Please Specify:

2. At what age did you realize you were not cisgender? This does not have to be the same as when you came out.

3. Are you out? If certain people, select other and explain.

Yes

Other

Please Specify:

4. What does passing mean to you? Please explain using as much space as needed.

6. Please explain your choice for the previous question (question 5).

7. Have you ever felt pressured to pass as a particular gender?

Yes

8. If yes to the previous question (question 7), please explain why.

9. How would you respond to this scenario? You are replying to a work email asking for further clarification on something you directly work with.

"Hey there, thanks for reaching out. I'll break it down for you: [provides detailed technical explanation]. Let me know if you need anything else. Cheers."

"Hey, sure thing. Here's a bit more detail on that: [provides a concise explanation with some technical terms]. Hope that helps!"

"Hi! I'm happy to clarify. So, in simpler terms, [provides a straightforward explanation without getting too technical]. Let me know if you need more info!"

"Hello! Of course, I'd be glad to help. Here's a gentle breakdown: [provides a clear and simplified explanation, offering further assistance if needed]. Take care!"

10. Why did you the answer in the way you did in the previous question (question 9)? Please explain in as many words as needed.

11. How would you respond to this scenario? You are replying to a text from a friend where they complimented you on your success in a video game.

"Thanks, man! Just honing those skills, you know? Ready for another round anytime."

"Appreciate it, dude! Been putting in the practice. We should team up and dominate together sometime."

"Aw, thank you! I've been having a blast with it lately. Maybe we can play together sometime?"

"Aw, you're so sweet! I've been really enjoying it. We should totally play together and have some fun!"

12. Why did you the answer in the way you did in the previous question (question 11)? Please explain in as many words as needed.

13. How would you respond to this scenario? Your boss asks you to work on a new project when you already have too much to do and you know you can't finish the new task.

"Boss, I'm already swamped with my current workload. I'll do my best to prioritize, but I can't guarantee I'll get to the new project immediately."

"I hear you, boss. I've got a lot on my plate right now. Let's discuss how we can rearrange priorities or possibly delegate some tasks to make room for the new project."

"I appreciate the opportunity, but I'm concerned about taking on more right now. I want to ensure I can deliver quality work, so perhaps we can revisit the timing or look into redistributing tasks."

"Thank you for entrusting me with this new project. However, I'm currently at capacity with my workload. Can we explore options like extending deadlines, reallocating resources, or possibly involving others to assist?"

14. Why did you the answer in the way you did in the previous question (question 13)? Please explain in as many words as needed.

15. Have you noticed changes in your communication style since realizing that you were not cisgender?

Yes

16. If yes to the previous question (question 15), please give details of these chances.

17. If you responded yes to question 15, did you actively try to change your communication style?

Yes

18. If yes to the previous question (question 17), please give details of these changes

19. Do you think language use affects someone’s ability to pass?

Yes

Sometimes

20. Have you encountered specific language or terminology that has positively or negatively affected your experience of passing?

Yes

21. If yes to the previous question (question 20), please provide examples.

22. How do you think language used by others (e.g., pronouns, gendered language) impacts an individual's ability to pass? You may select more than one.

Language can facilitate passing

Language can hinder passing

Language has no impact on passing

Not sure

23. Based on your answer to question 22 please give details of the type of language, if any.

24. How old are you currently?

18-27 years old

28-37 years old

38-47 years old

48+ years old

25. Is there anything else you would like to share about your experiences with passing or language within the transgender and non-binary community?

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