Holiday Season Self-Evaluation Test - TalkWithFos.com

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Holiday Season Self-Evaluation Test

Discover your holiday feelings and stressors with our thoughtful quiz! This self-evaluation is designed to help you understand your emotional landscape during the festive season.

  • Identify your stressors
  • Reflect on your holiday experiences
  • Assess how external factors affect your wellbeing
23 Questions6 MinutesCreated by ReflectingJoy42
When thinking about the December (Christmas/Hanukkah etc) holidays, how do you feel?
Excited, I love them!
Neutral/Ambivalent
Bad. The holidays (or this holiday) stress me out
Which of the below would you consider a stressor for yourself? (multiple choice)
Family (dynamics, relations etc)
Being away from family/ loved ones
Finances
Time spent shopping/ at parties/ with people / in traffic
Too much time alone
Time off work with no income
The weather
Health (personal/ family/ loved ones)
Recent life changes (loss, break up, move, new baby etc)
Shift in routine
Food & drink options that don't match my preferences
Other
Please Specify:
Please rate the following: The holidays are happy, carefree and full of love (1 = I don't agree / 5= I strongly agree)
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The holidays are a happy time for others, but not always for myself (0 = I don't agree / 5= I strongly agree)
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To have a great holiday break you need money (0 = I don't agree / 5= I strongly agree)
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The most successful holidays feature lots of gifts
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5
I will eat and drink whatever is offered to me, so as to not offend anyone
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I present a different version of myself during the holidays, so we can all get along
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I feel represented in media during the holidays
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I find the holidays stressful
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Thinking of your family, which of these statements is true for you? (multiple choice)
I have a difficult relationship with one/ some of them
I have a totally broken relationship with one/ some of them
I have multiple families (divorced parents, my spouse's parents, children with multiple partners etc)
I have recently lost a family member or gone through a breakup
My family (or parts) is far away
We don't see eye to eye on politics/ religion / etc
They don't like/accept some lifestyle choices including my food and drink choices/ my partner/ my work/ my fitness
I don't enjoy feeling like a guest in my family's house
Their overall holiday expectations are different to mine
Other
Please Specify:
Thinking of your finances, which of these statements is true for you? (multiple choice)
The increased cost of living has affected me
I am expected to purchase lots of gifts and cards
I am concerned with the cost of traveling during the holidays
I am concerned with the cost of food / drinks/ eating out
I am concerned with the cost of new outfits/ NYE celebrations/ nights out
My holidays are unpaid
Other
Please Specify:
Thinking of time, which of these statements is true for you? (multiple choice)
Too much time off work makes me anxious about what I will have to do when I'm back
The holidays have less routine, and my routine gives me stability
I will spend a large amount of time with family and I am not used to it
I will spend too much time alone
There is too much to do on my holiday to-do list
My children will be out of school and in my care/responsibility
I will have to spend time in redundant tasks like traffic, traveling, shopping queues etc
Other
Please Specify:
Thinking of the weather, which of these statements is true for you? (multiple choice)
I suffer from Seasonal Affective Disorder
The dark/cold/gloomy days really bring me down
I am spending the holidays in the southern hemisphere, and the heat doesn't make it feel like Christmas
The weather doesn't affect me
Other
Please Specify:
Thinking of life changes, which of these statements is true for you? (multiple choice)
I have recently gone through a negative life change (job loss, breakup, death, incarceration, etc)
I have recently gone through a positive life change (marriage, new job, new baby, new home etc)
I have recently moved abroad
Life feels generally quite uncertain right now
I have changed my lifestyle (diet/ exercise/ drinking/ drugs)
Other
Please Specify:
Thinking of health, which of these statements is true for you? (multiple choice)
I am in poor health / I have recently suffered an accident
A loved one is in poor health/ has recently suffered an accident
The holidays trigger some health conditions for me (mental/physical)
Hospitals are always understaffed/ very busy during the holidays
Other
Please Specify:
Thinking of your routine, which of these statements is true for you? (multiple choice)
I will be exposed to new/ unusual stressors and triggers
I find large groups of people in bars/restaurants/ shopping malls difficult
I am worried about Covid19 or other seasonal bugs
I might have to get up and go to bed at different times
I might have to skip out on self care, including working out, meditating or beauty routines
I will probably be exposed to other people's 'better' lives on social media
I find there are too many triggering cheesy/happy/romantic movies and songs
Other
Please Specify:
Overall, I think of the Christmas/Hanukkah holidays as:
A really happy, fun, joyful time
I have mixed feelings about it
I find them stressful/ lonely/ sad
The holidays trigger in me feelings of:
Stress/Overwhelm/Worry/Anxiety
Comparison/Jealousy/Envy
Boredom/Disappointment/Expectations
Awe/Wonder/Curiosity
Amusement/Bittersweetness/Nostalgia
Anguish/Hopelessness/Despair/Sadness
Compassion/Empathy/Sympathy
Shame/Guilt/Embarassment
Belonging/Connection
Invisibility/Loneliness
Love/Trust
Betrayal/Heartbreak
Joy/Happiness/Contentment
Relief/Tranquility/Calm
Gratitude
Anger/Disgust/Contempt
Other
Please Specify:
If you could have mental wellness/ stress relief support during the holidays, would you take it?
Yes! I'll take all the help I can get.
Unsure, it would depend on what was on offer
No, I can deal with the holiday stress myself
What would help you manage your holiday stress? (Multiple choice)
A mini-course that teaches me how to deal with stressors and triggers that I can consult whenever
In person calls with a coach/therapist when I feel triggered
Guided meditations (spoken)
Guided meditations (ASMR/whispered)
A monthly journal for December
Holiday-specific positive affirmations
Please add in anything else that you might want to comment regarding the Christmas holidays
Please select your gender
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